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Phoenix1 posted 9/24/2013 14:30 PM

Apparently POS decided to look at the tax records online for our marital home and discovered that it is now only in my name. He just fired off a text to me: "You filed the change of the house deed without my approval. I will be filing legal action to remove the house from you."

Okay asshole. I have a previous text from you that said I get the marital house outright, I've got a notarized Quit Claim from you granting me sole ownership of the house legally, and you have signed the divorce agreement in front of a notary that gives me the house in its entirety and that has been officially filed with the court. Exactly what "approval" from you am I missing here to take legal possession of the home???

Geez, it must really be nice to live such a delusional life in NPD land...

Do what you gotta do, fucktwit, and spend more money that you don't have on frivolous action that will get laughed out of court...

ajsmom posted 9/24/2013 14:38 PM

Hilarious!

AJ's MOM

Brandon808 posted 9/24/2013 14:39 PM

When he said this...

You filed the change of the house deed without my approval. I will be filing legal action to remove the house from you.
...exactly what did he think doing this...
I've got a notarized Quit Claim from you granting me sole ownership of the house legally
...meant?

Signing a Quit Claim is giving your approval to change the deed. I mean it is what its name implies. You QUIT any CLAIM to the deed. What an idiot.

ETA: spelling goof

[This message edited by Brandon808 at 2:42 PM, September 24th, 2013 (Tuesday)]

lieshurt posted 9/24/2013 14:41 PM

He's not the brightest bunny in the forest.

[This message edited by lieshurt at 2:41 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)]

5454real posted 9/24/2013 14:42 PM

Lol. makes you wonder if he was going to try to use the home as collateral.

too bad so sad for him.

7yrsflushed posted 9/24/2013 14:44 PM

If he's pissed now, I would hate to see him after he is laughed out of court if it even gets that far.

hexed posted 9/24/2013 14:46 PM

wow...i've heard some doozies around here but that's pretty high on the list of stupid.

enjoy the moment...

GabyBaby posted 9/24/2013 15:44 PM

Phoenix1 posted 9/24/2013 16:01 PM

I am surmising that co-ownership of the house was the cornerstone to his strategy of keeping a formal "residence" in the state with accompanying address...all for the purpose of avoiding debt collectors.

I guess now that the cornerstone has been removed, the foundation is crumbling, everything is collapsing and his house of cards is imploding... ahh, poor, poor, baby.... wahhhhhh!!

I guess in his NPD World a Quit Claim means "I am signing over the property legally but don't really mean it and you can't file it so I can keep up my smoke and mirrors game to the rest of the world..."

Housefulloflove posted 9/24/2013 18:52 PM

But did you say "pretty please, with a cherry on top?" and then bent down and kissed his behind and promise to boost his ego for life? No? Well then you didn't *really* get his permission.

Ah, NPDLand..even the glitter farting unicorns aren't special enough to live there.

Skan posted 9/24/2013 22:50 PM

Ahhhh, that boy is the butter knife in the cutlery drawer of life. Not Too Sharp!

SBB posted 9/25/2013 04:57 AM

I guess in his NPD World a Quit Claim means "I am signing over the property legally but don't really mean it and you can't file it so I can keep up my smoke and mirrors game to the rest of the world..."

I don't know Phoenix - you might be in trouble if he has proof and witnesses that his had his fingers crossed when he signed.

Did his L not explain this part in little words for him?

FaithFool posted 9/25/2013 11:19 AM

Lalagirl posted 9/25/2013 11:32 AM

fucktwit

This is a new one...and I
love it!

You filed the change of the house deed without my approval. I will be filing legal action to remove the house from you.

I love the way asshats write. You can fit an entire house inside of you - well, then yes, it MUST be removed!

spend more money that you don't have on frivolous action that will get laughed out of court...

Oh Phoenix, please don't tell him that it's all legally been taken care of...let him make an ass of himself and spend money.

Phoenix1 posted 9/25/2013 15:45 PM

I have completely ignored his text, and now, this morning, he is blowing up my email. Separate emails demanding that I send items xxx immediately. He seems to have forgotten that we have a signed separation agreement in place that gives me everything currently in my possession, and he has listed stuff I don't even have as well as stuff he has already picked up.

One of the best is that he is demanding that I ship three ATVs to him ASAP. First, he can kiss my ass if he thinks I would do that. Second, he already told the kids that he was giving them to them outright, so if he wants them he can tell the kids that he didn't really mean it (sounds eerily familiar to him not really meaning the Quit Claim) and deal with the fallout from that. Third, if he wanted them why didn't he pick them up when he was here in the state secretly in July?? I don't give a rat's ass about the ATVs, but I will be furious if he does this to the kids just because he wants to be a dick to me. Lastly, if he really thinks I would pay to ship them to him 4,000 miles away he is insane.

He has lost his sense of control and is going ballistic!! In response he gets crickets and eye rolls, and some chuckles over his sense of entitlement. This is how he rolls, and this is why I sucked up my pride and ate the proverbial shit sandwich over the past months being overly nice and civil to get him to sign the papers.

His true colors are certainly showing now! Mr. Civility, I think not...

ETA: What I would REALLY like to tell him is to put down the crack pipe because he has killed too many brain cells and exacerbating his stupidity... (he doesn't really do drugs, but it sure seems that way!)

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 12:23 PM, September 26th (Thursday)]

nowiknow23 posted 9/25/2013 15:50 PM

Phoenix - Just slipping in to whisper in your ear a bit. When NPDs lose control, really bad things can happen. I know he's far away and in the wrong and all that. But please reassure me that you're watching your back. Just in case he truly loses it.

Stay safe, ok?

Phoenix1 posted 9/25/2013 15:57 PM

But please reassure me that you're watching your back. Just in case he truly loses it.

I am, at least as much as I possibly can. I've seen him lose it with law enforcement (remember, that's his career), attorneys, city administrators, etc. over the years. I know how he responded and tactics he used so I have a good sense of what to expect, and I ALWAYS keep my guard up with him! I don't trust him AT ALL!

Thanks for the concern.

forced2moveon posted 9/25/2013 19:39 PM

He may be right.....

I'm not trying to stress you but this is what happened in my case.

My 1st cheating ex-husband convinced me to sign a quit claim deed removing my name on our marital home. He said he'd stop the divorce once I proved I wasn't in our marriage for the "stuff". He said that once it was filed with the court he'd stop our divorce. I signed over the deed and had my name removed and surprise, he never stopped the divorce. I immediately hired an attorney who filed a motion that the deed was filed by me under stress. The judge resended the deed back into both our names and the house was divided 50/50 between the both of us in our divorce.

[This message edited by forced2moveon at 7:42 PM, September 25th (Wednesday)]

forced2moveon posted 9/25/2013 19:40 PM

BTW My ex is also a commander for the LA Sheriffs Dept.

Phoenix1 posted 9/25/2013 19:50 PM

I immediately hired an attorney who filed a motion that the deed was filed by me under stress. The judge resended the deed back into both our names and the house was divided 50/50 between the both of us in our divorce.

Unusual things can always happen, I grant you. But he is going to be hard pressed to say he was under any duress when he also said it in a previous text conversation as well as signed off on the divorce settlement saying the same thing, and everything is already equitably distributed in the settlement including the house.

Plus, he will have to come up with money to hire an attorney and he is dodging debt collectors as it is...

I hear ya though forced2moveon. Did you sign your Quit Claim in front of a notary? I ask because they are required to ask the signer if they are under any duress and signing of their own free will.

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