When looking at what is left from the marriage, WH blew away all the assets so I would not get anything. We spent most of his retirement money on the lawyers so that's gone, then he stopped paying on the boat and a vacation home we owned so those were repossessed and foreclosed and now all that is left is the marital home that is in foreclosure and 2 junkie cars.
Except well.....the child support and my part of his pension.
I am really getting nothing really and I am angry that he is trying to manipulate me to save the house he is living in; not his children.
He has also stopped taking them on the weekends. I mean, I have had them for at least a month and he has only had one overnite! I ask him to help with the extra food bill and he says that's what child support is for.
I think I may ask for 70/30. Right now its 60/40.