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suckstobeme posted 9/24/2013 19:05 PM

He's such an ass clown. Seriously.

I found out he's told the kids that he still loves me but isn't IN love with me. He's even saying it to the kids??

My DS asked how that made me feel and I told him it means nothing to me. I told him that I don't know or love your dad anymore. I talk to him about you when I need to and we don't fight, but I don't know him anymore and don't consider him a friend.

Talk about confusing kids that are already hurt and confused. He's wants to just skate out of this scot- free and make it oh so seamless to just demolish a family.

Well Fuck That GUY. My kids think he's an asshole for leaving us and choosing to toss their mother away like a piece of trash. They know what he did hurt everyone else and we get to live with the pain while he gets to just walk away.

Dickhead.

peridot posted 9/24/2013 20:00 PM

The next thing he'll be saying is he wants to be friends.You know, so he looks like the good guy.

SBB posted 9/25/2013 05:23 AM

Fuck....That.....Guy.....

All of it is to put him in the best possible light.

Dontcha know 'love' is all you need?

Doesn't matter is someone has abused you, smashed your world apart and put you through one of the most painful experiences there are. He still loves you so that means he can be forgiven and all will be forgotten.

I completely expect the same romanticised bullshit. My girls may even believe him and have empathy for a time but I'm guessing they'll see exactly what this is once they are wives and mothers themselves.

I don't know about you but I no longer feel like he demolished my family. My little family was lost for a while whilst I was in that M but the 3 of us are now so much more intact than we ever were with that joy-killing 4th member.

TrustGone posted 9/25/2013 11:21 AM

FTG is right. My XWH#1 still tells me he loves me. We have been D'd for 10yrs and I am remarried. He knows he screwed up, but he is no longer my problem. If he loved me he wouldn't have continued to have a GF while married to me.

sleepless34 posted 9/25/2013 13:08 PM

Seriously....why why why does he feel the need to discuss that with the kids (not sure how old they are...but really?)

That is really teaching them a lesson- a bad lesson- about how to treat people, about marriage, about loyalty. What a F**Ker.

I am sorry! If it makes you feel any better, mine told my 8 yo that "he made a mistake that mommy didn't like." Seriously, these cowards will do or say anything not to look bad or take any responsibility. I am not even mad about it, I pity that emotional F**tard.

Housefulloflove posted 9/25/2013 13:29 PM

My little family was lost for a while whilst I was in that M but the 3 of us are now so much more intact than we ever were with that joy-killing 4th member

Amen! I can say the same only we're a family of 4 without a joy-killing 5th!

F.T. Big Dummy! WHY doesn't he have enough sense to know that he shouldn't say those things to his children? People that dysfunctional should be locked away so they can't hurt anyone else. Telling a child that you're not in love with their parent anymore is so fucking unnecessary and hurtful.

sparkysable posted 9/26/2013 15:13 PM

AYFKM?

He actually said "I-love-your-mother-but-I-am-not-IN-LOVE-with-your-mother"????????

Oh HELL no!!

suckstobeme posted 9/26/2013 15:18 PM

That's my understanding. My 10 year old DS wouldn't have come up with that on his own. I don't even know what the hell that really means, there's no way he would get it.

I try to be as truthful as I can about my feelings without demolishing their relationship with him. I'd rather he do that all by himself.

It just pisses me off that he's still using this bullshit line and is now using it on my kids. I feel like telling him to just please say it. Just tell them why you left amd who you left for. If he was so proud of his actions and his choice, you would think he just would get it over with and move on with the Brady bunch charade.

But no. He's gonna be a coward to the end.

sparkysable posted 9/27/2013 07:34 AM

He's gonna be a coward to the end.
Obviously.

Who the FUCK says that to a kid? Most ADULTS are confused by ILYBINILWY, which in my opinion, is the STUPIDEST thing you can say. It makes absolutely no sense!

FuckThatGuy times one million. Fuck him and his batshit crazy OW.

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