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IslandGirl18
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Member # 36781
Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't communicated with my WH in 6 weeks. It's been hell really. I need to focus on me and healing but I miss him. I only think of the good things. I need to remember all the terrible things he said and did to me.

My state has a no fault divorce now. All a person needs to do is say the marriage hasn't worked for them in 6 months. Then we settle the finances, assets, debts. I'm not ready for that.

I still love this bastard. I keep taking my rings off and then putting them back on again.

The silence is killing me. It is giving me clarity too. When I stop by the house to get the mail, our pictures are still out.

I'm exhausted from sobbing. From living. I hate my life so much.

I remember on DD I told him I was terrified of living this life with him and living a life without him. I hate living a life without him..I miss him so much.

Today I do not want a divorce. I just want to feel better..

And I think I do as crazy as it seems. I'm not anxious anymore. Just sad. So deeply sad..

So isolated. Ignored. Unwanted.


me: BS
him: WS

D Day: July 27, 2012
Day of first suspicion: 6/7/11
DD#2: November 2, 2012

Divorced


Posts: 105 | Registered: Sep 2012
emotionalgirl
♀ 40184
Member # 40184
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IslandGirl. I don't have any wise words I am sorry...all I can offer is the knowledge that we members are seeing your post and a ((( hug )))


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 373 | Registered: Aug 2013
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Give Yourself More Time. I Remember 6 Weeks Felt Like An Eternity, What With The Lack Of Sleep, Anxiety, And The Rollercoaster Of Emotions. But Time And Taking The FoCus Off Of Him.and Putting It On You Does Help Gain Clarity, And Peace Of Mind.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2556 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((IslandGirl))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26484 | Registered: Aug 2011
HurtButHopeful?
♀ 25144
Member # 25144
Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You will get through this and be stronger than before you met him.

(((((IslandGirl18))))


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
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