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IslandGirl18 posted 9/24/2013 20:19 PM

I haven't communicated with my WH in 6 weeks. It's been hell really. I need to focus on me and healing but I miss him. I only think of the good things. I need to remember all the terrible things he said and did to me.

My state has a no fault divorce now. All a person needs to do is say the marriage hasn't worked for them in 6 months. Then we settle the finances, assets, debts. I'm not ready for that.

I still love this bastard. I keep taking my rings off and then putting them back on again.

The silence is killing me. It is giving me clarity too. When I stop by the house to get the mail, our pictures are still out.

I'm exhausted from sobbing. From living. I hate my life so much.

I remember on DD I told him I was terrified of living this life with him and living a life without him. I hate living a life without him..I miss him so much.

Today I do not want a divorce. I just want to feel better..

And I think I do as crazy as it seems. I'm not anxious anymore. Just sad. So deeply sad..

So isolated. Ignored. Unwanted.

emotionalgirl posted 9/24/2013 21:40 PM

IslandGirl. I don't have any wise words I am sorry...all I can offer is the knowledge that we members are seeing your post and a ((( hug )))

StillLivin posted 9/24/2013 22:37 PM

Give Yourself More Time. I Remember 6 Weeks Felt Like An Eternity, What With The Lack Of Sleep, Anxiety, And The Rollercoaster Of Emotions. But Time And Taking The FoCus Off Of Him.and Putting It On You Does Help Gain Clarity, And Peace Of Mind.

nowiknow23 posted 9/24/2013 22:57 PM


HurtButHopeful? posted 9/25/2013 00:38 AM

You will get through this and be stronger than before you met him.


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