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User Topic: Just let me go
myperfectlife
♀ 39801
Member # 39801
Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For months you've kept me hanging on
to every word you've uttered.
You love me, you don't love me, you love her, you don't love her...
so many realities muttered.

For hours I've wept, and screamed and fought
to keep our love from dying.
I blamed myself so many times,
when I know you had stopped trying.

For years I held our dreams together, sacrificed for our tomorrow.
You crushed those dreams beneath your heal, leaving me with only sorrow.

You knew but would not tell me.
You are not the man I love,
I know.
Instead of holding me and lying...
Why didn't you
just let me go.


I cannot be responsible for another's personal growth.
DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13

Posts: 452 | Registered: Jul 2013
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((myperfectlife)))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26202 | Registered: Aug 2011
StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Myperfectlife)))


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2501 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Grilla
♂ 40299
Member # 40299
Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's just dumbfounds me the way human beings can go through with cheating on people that they claim that they love. My wife told me, "I never stopped loving you".
How could you?! I'm a man with one hell of a sex drive, and the five years that my wifes sexual appetite subsided I never seriously considered an affair.

Posts: 37 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Virginia
HurtButHopeful?
♀ 25144
Member # 25144
Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((myperfectlife)))))

(((((grilla)))))

It's selfishness, plain and simple.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
PinkJeepLady
♀ 37575
Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 2:10 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I so understand, WHY don't they just let us go?


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 502 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 2:36 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you MPL...I've wondered the same thing..I.wish I had an answer for you and.myself.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5242 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Topic Posts: 7

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