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Newest Member: BrokeninSept17 (61547)

User Topic: BW Has the Whole Day to Herself
♂ 37538
Member # 37538
Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today we start our youngest daughter in day school. Our oldest is in 3rd grade, and our middle daughter goes to day school 3 days a week, Mon, Weds, Fri. Our oldest now walks to and from school, so after she drops the other two off, she has the whole house to herself for 6 hours or so! I'm not too sure what my point is here, I'm just hoping that she can relax and enjoy the peace and quiet. She most certainly deserves the time to herself.

I know we're worth it.
WH/BH (Me-36) EA 11/11-12/11
BW/WW (tattoodchinadoll-34) EA early 2016, PA 8/16-9/16, Continued to 12/16 after discovery.
Together nearly 20 years, married for 14.
Three daughters, 12, 8 and 5.

Posts: 230 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: New Jersey
♀ 36883
Member # 36883
Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you do anything for her to celebrate?

I hope that she has a good day too...

Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 2393 | Registered: Sep 2012
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It used to bug me, too, when my W worked a lot fewer hours than I did. Just sayin'....

fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

Posts: 16813 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
♀ 40762
Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope she can relax to and not be consumed. It is so hard a BW i know. Sounds like you recognize that she needs a break...that's great of you.

BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
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