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DWBH posted 9/25/2013 09:16 AM

... since DDay #1. The past 6 weeks of "A season" have been challenging, but nothing like last year at this time. Definite progress!

I've had constant triggers & reminders during almost any conversation we've had. Just cheap shots that zing through my mind. I've done my best not to let my expression convey my thoughts, much less my words. It's not necessary or constructive to share these things anymore, and that feels like progress to me.

So, I'm hoping that making it past this date will help in having these triggers diminish. We're leaving tomorrow morning for a long weekend away, just the two of us, to a touristy little fall getaway up north. Looking so forward to getting away for a bit, and de-stressing, and just having time to focus on each other.

2married2quit posted 9/25/2013 09:24 AM

I can't wait to get to the 2yr mark. Glad you're doing better. Triggers will always happen but I guess with time you have to let them go.

catlover50 posted 9/25/2013 09:29 AM

Good for you; have a great weekend!

LosferWords posted 9/25/2013 09:34 AM

Awesome update, DWBH!

I do hope you have an outlet for those thoughts in your head, though. Just to let 'em out, so they don't fester. Feel free to PM me at any time if you ever need to vent.

Hope you both have an awesome long weekend together.

Take care.

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