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New Beginnings :
"let's just be friends"

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 better4me (original poster member #30341) posted at 11:06 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

Not my favorite thing to be told by someone I am interested in. Gah. Oh well, he wasn't "that" special...I did say "I don't know if you get to be my friend" cuz, really, it is kind of a privilege to be my friend, just saying. I'm sure I will be fine about this...but it sucks anyway.

Recently saw a quote I liked, "If you want to come into my life, the door is open. If you want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just don't stand there in the doorway, you're blocking traffic."

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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ItsNotUitsMe ( member #21966) posted at 11:27 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

Sorry for your disappointment....

Love the quote too...have someone standing in my doorway currently. I think if I were to ask him, he probably thinks he is in the door. And he might be, but he is definitely looking out the window!

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phmh ( member #34146) posted at 12:09 AM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

Oh, so, so sorry -- is this the guy that things were going so well with a few weeks back? Or am I confusing you with someone else?

I have no interest in being friends with someone I once dated. I find it hard enough to find enough time to spend with the friends I already have.

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:32 AM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

Sorry things didn't work out, b4me.

Love love LOVE that quote. Adding it to my file.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:13 AM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

Sorry b4d.

(((hugs)))

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 better4me (original poster member #30341) posted at 4:19 AM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

thanks all. I'm getting used to this romantic disappointment and realizing that so much personal growth comes from these times makes it a little bit better.

phmh: Yep this is the one I got off the bus with a couple of weeks ago...le sigh...

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:23 AM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

(((better4me)))

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 1:34 PM on Thursday, September 26th, 2013

I like the quote,

"If you aren't going to stand up to be the man she deserves, then sit down so she can see the ones behind you."

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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