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User Topic: "let's just be friends"
better4me
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not my favorite thing to be told by someone I am interested in. Gah. Oh well, he wasn't "that" special...I did say "I don't know if you get to be my friend" cuz, really, it is kind of a privilege to be my friend, just saying. I'm sure I will be fine about this...but it sucks anyway.

Recently saw a quote I liked, "If you want to come into my life, the door is open. If you want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just don't stand there in the doorway, you're blocking traffic."


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
ItsNotUitsMe
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for your disappointment....

Love the quote too...have someone standing in my doorway currently. I think if I were to ask him, he probably thinks he is in the door. And he might be, but he is definitely looking out the window!


Posts: 1053 | Registered: Dec 2008
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, so, so sorry -- is this the guy that things were going so well with a few weeks back? Or am I confusing you with someone else?

I have no interest in being friends with someone I once dated. I find it hard enough to find enough time to spend with the friends I already have.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3537 | Registered: Dec 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry things didn't work out, b4me.

Love love LOVE that quote. Adding it to my file.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26489 | Registered: Aug 2011
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry b4d.

(((hugs)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53326 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks all. I'm getting used to this romantic disappointment and realizing that so much personal growth comes from these times makes it a little bit better.

phmh: Yep this is the one I got off the bus with a couple of weeks ago...le sigh...


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((better4me)))

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cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like the quote,

"If you aren't going to stand up to be the man she deserves, then sit down so she can see the ones behind you."


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4283 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
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