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Content  Posted: 8:01 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some things I've been without for awhile, that I've noticed are recently finding their way back into my life:

My laugh

My confidence

My appetite

A good night's sleep

Most music (some lyrics are still too close to home... but a few months ago I couldn't listen to anything)

Movies/shows with even the slightest romantic undertones. These were also unbearable not long ago. Now, I'm mostly okay with it.

More days I don't cry, than days when I do.

Dreams and plans about the future, MY future.

Hope for better days to come.

Contentment in spending time alone. As an only child, this is old hat for me... I just had to remember how.

My grip on these things is still slippery... some times I have a really bad day and it all flies right out the window. But, it flies back in a lot sooner lately.

Feeling so much love for everyone here at SI!

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

Posts: 1643 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
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Happy  Posted: 8:03 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post!!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4415 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Good for you, gypsy.

You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown

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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Back laugh, confidence, appetite, sleep, etc!! So good to have you back!

I SURVIVED infidelity. Me 44, DD 20, DS 16
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep - this is how it begins. Happiness creeps up on you when you least expect it.

I'm thrilled for you gypsybird.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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