My husband insists he only slept with his ex girlfriend once about seven to eight months ago. However, he continued to text her and talk to her and even had a nickname for her "My angel." The texting and phone calls didn't end when she moved seven states away. IN fact he was planning on flying to see her and claims it was to tell her he wanted to "end things" but at the same time he insists this wasn't even a romantic, or passionate affair. He said most of the time she talked about her marriage and kids and complained and he just listened. He was so miserable the whole time -- he was in adeep depression after losing his grandfather, his father figure, in April of 2012. He wouldn't talk to me or go to counseling. There is so much more to the story, but the bottom line is he has insisted over and over...every time I've asked him about it that he slept with her one time.
But for a long time he insisted he wasn't flying to see her and I had to drag it out of him. HE also lied in the beginning and tried to tell me it wasn't even her he'd slept with and he'd used her as a cover up. Huh?
He's a pathological liar, buthe is really trying hard to find out why he does it (it's his mother) and not do it anymore.
I just don't know if I keep pushing or just assume it was more than once and try to move forward. He said he will never change the story on how many times because it was "JUST once" as if that makes it OK. :(