But for a long time he insisted he wasn't flying to see her and I had to drag it out of him. HE also lied in the beginning and tried to tell me it wasn't even her he'd slept with and he'd used her as a cover up. Huh?
He's a pathological liar, buthe is really trying hard to find out why he does it (it's his mother) and not do it anymore.
I just don't know if I keep pushing or just assume it was more than once and try to move forward. He said he will never change the story on how many times because it was "JUST once" as if that makes it OK. :(
I was lied to for 5 months about any sex. I was lied to for another 5 months about all the details including 3 previous A's. It was not until my fWS started reading here and reading "How to help your spouse heal from your affair", that she learned she had to come clean to move forward.