You already hit nail on head...
We look because, of course!, we are curious. We want to 'see' the draw.
We look...we wonder WTF the draw is?! So we, or maybe friends look if you don't have a social network page ( insert whistling smilie here) we don't see 'the draw'.
Then we feel silly - now I looked, for what? For nothing! She sucks, XH or WH sucks. Now I feel crummy for 'caring'. Rinse and repeat.
I don't personally FB or really otherwise social network because I'm a bit old-school and don't get it. I talk to those I want to talk to...BUT my bestiest friend in the world DOES do all that. And she updates me on OWifey (as a BFF should! LOL!). Okay, so ignore me... we're looking at OWife's page again.
Of course it's full of totally neato things and great pics!
When's the last time YOU posted a selfie of your PMS'ing belly? When did you last post of money shortage with bills coming or the fact that family pet just crapped on the floor?! Probably never!
I don't know, as much as I hated being curious - I was. I wanted to GET what was so great. My BFF would tell me stuff and I'd think, I guess it's all neat.
But in the end, it ends up being 'real life' for them too. Bills, kids, pets...bullshit.
While I don't love this is how is turned out, I do like that it's only me and kids I have to worry about. Not someone else spending my money, calling shots and so on.
Fuck them! (but I totally get checking in, it's a sickness! LOL!)
[This message edited by wannabenormal at 10:57 PM, September 25th (Wednesday)]