So I was actually speechless last night, but for a good reason.
I was talking to BF about why I had to quit taking the same martial arts class as my DS. Two reasons:1- I was getting hurt so I wanted to heal up first, and 2-I couldn't afford the extra $30.00 a month on top of my gym membership (broke single mom..lol).
So he looks at me for a minute and says "if money is the only issue I will pay for it for you. "
I was floored. Then I realized I was so used to being married to a selfish, self absorbed person that I was truly shocked when he offered to pay. I can guarantee you that my ex would have found money to pay for his stuff, but when it came to me he would never offer such things.
Wow is it nice to have someone treat you like this, putting your needs first.