So I wasn't sure where to post this but I figured here was the best place because we are currently trying to R.
A little backstory for this question. H and OW had been friends since 2008 or so. She had a live-in BF and eventually got engaged. In 3-4/10 she sent my H an explicit pic of herself. It didn't happen again for a while but was off and on until PA started 12/12. During that time her and BF had issues and eventually decided not to stay together.
She met another guy during this time and we found out after the fact she slept with him in 10/12. Fast forward to 12/31, she had sex with my H that morning and that night became "official" with the new guy. Meanwhile her live-in bf is still in her house!! (He didn't move out until Feb I believe). The A continued while she was seeing new guy. When she saw things were working out with him (Apr 12), she drops my H and says they should just be friends. I found out about the A in May.
So here is my question. Do I even bother telling OBBF about this? My H has a lot of anger for OW because she has no consequences and to be honest, I do too. Both of our ICs said not to tell him because we'd be doing it for the wrong reason. H has to work with her every day and it kills him to see her prancing around like nothing happened and then I have to see him upset.
Both of us do feel BBF should know what he's getting himself into but not sure if that warrants telling him.
Sorry for the long post!!! Any advice?
Edited for typos
[This message edited by AML04 at 6:05 PM, September 26th (Thursday)]