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User Topic: aarrrggg!!! A Season Dates
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just left for a three day work trip I do the last week of September every year.

During this trip two years ago, fWS and OM had their first "date". fWS and OM took DS3 to the park and playground. She asked my permission and I enthusiastically said yes. I thought it was nice she met a new friend. I just didn't know what kind of "friend" he would be.

There has been an underlying ssadness the last couple days and a lot of what ifs. "What if I said no". And shit like that.

I mentioned it to broevil this morning. She hasn't put two and two together. Which is OK, she is not a date person like I am.

Without missing a beat she says "why didn't you say something earlier? I'm going next year!!! We are taking that shit back!!!!"

[This message edited by Chicho at 10:03 AM, September 26th (Thursday)]


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Chicho)))

I'm going next year!!! We are taking that shit back!!!

Love this!


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great response


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FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
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The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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brokensmile322
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! This is awesome...not that you are struggling, but that you two are working to overcome this together.

I love this!

I suspect you and broevil will do great the next few days keeping these feelings at bay.


Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl

"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."


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