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SabbyKat posted 9/26/2013 11:52 AM

I found out last night SO cheated on me.Also girl is preg.I am still processing everything and deciding what to do.

[This message edited by SabbyKat at 4:55 PM, September 26th (Thursday)]

Kimintexas posted 9/26/2013 12:02 PM

I am so sorry for you. What a betrayal on so many levels.

pregnantandsad posted 9/26/2013 12:03 PM

I am so sorry

StuckInHell posted 9/26/2013 12:17 PM

I'm so sorry for you. I am new here myself, but I have already found a lot of useful information and also some support here. Give yourself some time to process what you know. Think through everything before you act.

Hugs to you

StillStanding1 posted 9/26/2013 14:20 PM

Hi SabbyKat,

So sorry you find yourself here. It's a very hard road forward, no matter which fork you travel.

There are a lot of good articles to read in the Healing Library tab (upper left) while you process.

Try to eat, stay hydrated, exercise or go for a walk, try to sleep (take an OTC sleep aid if needed). Take a deep breath. There are no short cuts in healing from this.

Sending big hugs. (((SabbyKat)))

Gajit posted 9/26/2013 14:53 PM

I am so sorry you find yourself here. None of us wanted to be in this club.

There are a lot of caring and smart people here, so keep posting and venting on here. It really helps.

Also, something that helps me is writing in a journal, I have mine on my computer.

Hugs to you!

iwillNOT posted 9/26/2013 16:35 PM

Oh SabbyKat, I am so sorry you are in this situation! Your world has been turned upside down and no doubt you are in absolute shock. It may take a while for this to sink in. Please be gentle with yourself, take care of yourself.

This site has wonderful people and advice. I am only 6 weeks in from my Dday and this site has been a lifesaver. I second the journal writing, also IC has been very valuable to me to sort out my feelings.

Keep posting, let us know how you are.

SabbyKat posted 9/26/2013 16:56 PM

My biggest problem is this woman being preg.We do not know 100% it is his baby.But,since he did have unprotected sex with her there is a chance.

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