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User Topic: More brilliance from the X side of the gene pool.
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK - I have to add my 'the X is a moron' to the current flood of stupid X posts.


My X and I recently finalized our D after 5+ year since dday.

He apparently is in trouble with the IRS in the 5+ figure neighborhood. I have been filing married but separate for years. He knows this. I don't know if he hasn't filed or filed wrong but apparently his accountant just told him he's on the hook big time.

He just went out this weekend and bought a brand new carbon fiber bike. Posted it on facebook and then his camper van broke down and needs a new transmission. He has other vehicles but this will be getting done tomorrow.

This man has spent years telling me how financially irresponsible I am. Does anyone see the irony hear.

Friggin genius. Always had the money for new toys and wondered why we were broke.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8547 | Registered: Apr 2008
HurtsButImOK
♀ 38865
Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reality is in a galaxy far, far away from them.


Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou


Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess he never learned about priorities...


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17788 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2556 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This has me thinking......how many unremorseful WS's are terrible with money? How many just think about the present, and not the future with both money, and with their relationships?


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3564 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^ ^ ^ That would be mine, sparky ^ ^ ^

I handled EVERYTHING. Dude still has bill collectors calling me 4 years post D.

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21117 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
dmari
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My X and I recently finalized our D after 5+ year since dday. ... /// ... <<< this is me about to FAINT!! 5 years since dday!! Dang!

Yowzaa about the IRS! I applaud you for filing married but separate for YEARS as this is, in regards to taxes, the worst bracket (so I hear).

My also "brilliant" stbx decided to go against my decision for each of us to claim one child for 2012 and he claimed both children. I didn't know until my tax return was rejected. Under IRS's residency test, I have the right to claim both children so I did.

Guess what stbx's attorney's solution was ~ we both refile and claim one child. Fuck no. He took advantage of my original offer and he fucked up. Guess what the 2nd solution ~ we refile as married filing jointly. Fuck no. Actions meet consequence. The IRS will now investigate. Not. My. Problem.

You know what really sucks, I was actually (well, legally I still am) married to this idiot.


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2334 | Registered: Oct 2012
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Always had the money for new toys and wondered why we were broke.

Yep, that would be my POS! Couldn't spend it fast enough on stuff we didn't need and that always left us living paycheck to paycheck. Now that he doesn't have me to help bail his ass out, it is only a matter of time before he is in way over his head (more so than now).

Every time we would catch a break it would be only a matter of time before we were back in the hole. Same pattern over and over. That brings to mind a quote that fits my POS PERFECTLY!

Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results.

Yep. That sums it up alright!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1311 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
realitybites
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

......how many unremorseful WS's are terrible with money? How many just think about the present, and not the future with both money, and with their relationships?

Sparky....good question to ask in the General Forum. Probably more true then most know.


Posts: 5705 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: florida
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My X has actually been stashing away a fair bit of cash since we split. He was always sniping at me b/c I was struggling financially after we split...umm yeah, now I have 100% of the bills and oh by the way I got laid off, used all my savings that I hid from him and had to take a job that paid 60% of what my previous job did. Yeah I was struggling. No I don't always make great financial decisions but I am not nearly the frivilous francy he made me out to be.

Yeah he's had all this extra cash because he hasn't been doing his damn taxes each year, didn't change his deductions when we split and now he's hurting. But instead of sending the IRS a check, he just spent thousands on a bicycle. And trust me, that transmission will get fixed before the IRS gets paid.

I'm just digging myself out of the hole I was in. I've made a dent in a few things. I've also splurged on a few. I could be better but holy hell! I've filed my taxes.

Yeah 5+ years was just waiting. He had great health insurance.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8547 | Registered: Apr 2008
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm pretty sure Rico hasn't filed for at least the past three years. Again, it was something I handled.

The kicker is 18 months of those three years he collected unemployment. NON TAXED UC.

I can only imagine...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21117 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh AJ -- same thing. I always did the taxes.

I think for a while he was blaming me b/c I made a significant mistake on our 2008 taxes. The IRS came after him and garnished him. I can't imagine where my head was in early 2009 when I did those taxes, a year after dday, in the middle of filing D and bankruptcy. I just can't imagine how that mistake happened

Apparently, all mistakes following that one, including not filing his own taxes, must be fault.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8547 | Registered: Apr 2008
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