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I posted a long post yesterday about a bad fight I had with ws. We are made up now but I have a bad feeling. I feel like I can see how his choice to be unfaithful was out if his brokenness. But, lets say he did not choose to cheat. I guess it still leaves us with the fact that he seems to not find me attractive, finds me controlling, and other things. Now he finds me attractive since I lost weight but I am not finding him making advances. Lots if compliments. First he was scared he might give me an std. Now that window is over for a month and I needed surgery then my son. So we have been busy. But still if sex is so important to wh why does he not seem interested. I don't know I feel like maybe he justdoes not like me. Not becsuse he is broken but because he just does not. But then I think of all the positive thi vs he says and does and it does not add up. I am just hurt and confused these days.

Sorry you're hurting today.

Your join date is quite a while ago, yet you mention the window for stds has been a month. Has there been another affair?