thanks guys =) I know mil remembered, she posted on her facebook page happy bday to my granddaughter.
Considering DD is way too young to have a fb account, and I am not friends with mil on facebook... I just looked at her page (a lot of which is public), to see if maybe something had happened to her, or something had happened in her life... I was actually giving her the benefit of the doubt and thinking, no, she wouldn't flake on DDs birthday, I wonder if something is up, I will look on FB to see if she's got the flu or whatever..
I guess she just wanted her facebook friends to think she was a good grandma and wishing her granddaughter a happy bday Yep. Sounds like MIL!!!