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cuppacoffee posted 9/26/2013 20:00 PM

Why is it that over the past year the husband and i have been intimate like 200 hundred times but the only ones that seem to count (to me in my head not his) are the 3 he had with her.

I have done really well for the best two days I haven't checked out the twitter or the fb. I haven't started any arguements or snide comments about skankface. I just want to be at peace and move on. Not stuck in the past.

But right now I"m stuck.

I feel like I cannot enter R without him letting go of the fact that she was a "good friend." Sorry dude. Friends don't help you destroy your relationships with your wife and kids.

Feel free to share your random thoughts about.

ILINIA posted 9/26/2013 21:44 PM

Your random post made me think of tonight. Tonight I asked WH to tell me who has affairs and why do they do it. I then asked how he views affairs now.

It was an interesting conversation and at least he seems to be getting it.

As for a random thought, I wish my WH came with a built-in polygraph. I think he is telling me the truth, but it would love to have a second opinion.