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User Topic: Random Thoughts...
♀ 39313
Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why is it that over the past year the husband and i have been intimate like 200 hundred times but the only ones that seem to count (to me in my head not his) are the 3 he had with her.

I have done really well for the best two days I haven't checked out the twitter or the fb. I haven't started any arguements or snide comments about skankface. I just want to be at peace and move on. Not stuck in the past.

But right now I"m stuck.

I feel like I cannot enter R without him letting go of the fact that she was a "good friend." Sorry dude. Friends don't help you destroy your relationships with your wife and kids.

Feel free to share your random thoughts about.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 363 | Registered: May 2013
♀ 39836
Member # 39836
Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your random post made me think of tonight. Tonight I asked WH to tell me who has affairs and why do they do it. I then asked how he views affairs now.

It was an interesting conversation and at least he seems to be getting it.

As for a random thought, I wish my WH came with a built-in polygraph. I think he is telling me the truth, but it would love to have a second opinion.

Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 893 | Registered: Jul 2013
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