I am going to take some parenting classes to gain extra skills/tips in being a better mom. Our DS has Aspergers and he can be challenging at times. I have filed for D, but it is on hold for now.
Should I invite STBX to join me in these classes? On the one hand, I would like him to have as many skills as possible to be a great dad to his kids, but on the other hand, I don't want him to get more custody and come out looking like Dad of the Year when we go through the D process.
He is SA and also has NPD traits, so who knows if he would even get anything from these classes.