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 okaynow (original poster member #13813) posted at 1:16 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Getting married tomorrow and heading over for the rehearsal in a few minutes. I've been really calm and collected this whole time, but yesterday when SO and I went to speak with the manager at the venue again, I got excited/nervous. This morning I was somewhat frantic, without any good cause.

Meditated and prayed this afternoon and now I'm ready for a great evening with family and my closest friend.

Thank you SI friends for helping me get to this point.

Love you all.

Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

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Mama_of_3_Kids ( member #26651) posted at 2:21 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS16, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 3:11 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 3:18 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Congratulations!!

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 4:18 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Congrats!!!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 4:23 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Oh my gosh...this is such wonderful news!!! Congratulations

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Cally60 ( member #23437) posted at 4:51 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Goodness me! Congratulations from me, too, Okaynow!

Best wishes to the two of you. May you have a wonderful day and a long and an idyllically happy marriage.

[This message edited by Cally60 at 10:54 PM, September 27th (Friday)]

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:04 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

CONGRATS !!!

May your day be happy !

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 7:44 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Congratulations!!!!!!!

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:18 PM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Congrats!!!

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weeping willow ( member #22800) posted at 8:17 PM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

I'm so happy for you, okaynow!

Congratulations!

BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years


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NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 2:12 PM on Sunday, September 29th, 2013

Congratulations!!

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:28 PM on Sunday, September 29th, 2013

Congratulations!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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