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I wrote my story this morning. I posted it. It was cathartic, I will say that. It is incomplete. Even as I type this I consider all of the things I left out. But, I trust that each of you understands the millions upon millions of tiny details. The ones that are burned into your mind and heart, but are just too numerous and detailed to put on paper. Too important and impactive to do justice with just words.

It has helped me though. Just getting the first part of the story out. I do not like this anxious, nervous and distracted person that I have become. But taking control of my memories and putting them down on paper has really helped me.

Thank you all for opening your hearts and your stories. The value of the support that is recieved here is immeasurable.

Read your story wonder twin; so much faith and trust came crashing down with his betrayal. Even the finest marriages are not safe from infidelity.

Its good that he is fully remorseful; his guilt must be eating him alive since its obvious he cares very much. Hope you reconcile successfully; just remember to keep something back; as you said:

I am committed to my happiness and my children’s future. I love my H and will support him and work on his recovery as well, but no longer at the expense of mine.

I, too, read your story... So much heartbreak. So hard to believe. So hard to accept and understand.

I wish you the very best as you start your journey of healing. Take good care of yourself first, kids second.

It's a hard and winding road. It sounds like you have a remorseful spouse -- I think that will make all the difference.

Wishing you peace and strength.