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User Topic: Finally. able to post my story
♀ 40769
Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wrote my story this morning. I posted it. It was cathartic, I will say that. It is incomplete. Even as I type this I consider all of the things I left out. But, I trust that each of you understands the millions upon millions of tiny details. The ones that are burned into your mind and heart, but are just too numerous and detailed to put on paper. Too important and impactive to do justice with just words.
It has helped me though. Just getting the first part of the story out. I do not like this anxious, nervous and distracted person that I have become. But taking control of my memories and putting them down on paper has really helped me.
Thank you all for opening your hearts and your stories. The value of the support that is recieved here is immeasurable.

Just call me Wonder

If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.

Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017

Posts: 1251 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
OK now
♀ 14459
Member # 14459
Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Read your story wonder twin; so much faith and trust came crashing down with his betrayal. Even the finest marriages are not safe from infidelity.

Its good that he is fully remorseful; his guilt must be eating him alive since its obvious he cares very much. Hope you reconcile successfully; just remember to keep something back; as you said:

I am committed to my happiness and my children’s future. I love my H and will support him and work on his recovery as well, but no longer at the expense of mine.

Posts: 2062 | Registered: May 2007 | From: NC
♀ 40144
Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I, too, read your story... So much heartbreak. So hard to believe. So hard to accept and understand.

I wish you the very best as you start your journey of healing. Take good care of yourself first, kids second.

It's a hard and winding road. It sounds like you have a remorseful spouse -- I think that will make all the difference.

Wishing you peace and strength.

Me: BS49+ 😝, Him: WH 51
M 24 years - DD21 DS19 DS17
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, S for 1 year, now Reconciling

Posts: 1489 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
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