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User Topic: finally a small truimph!!!
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am happy to report that after 5 weeks of being unemployed I finally have a new job/career. The other job that I thought I had fell through, but luckily I went on an interview Friday and was hired on the spot!! I start next week!!!

I am excited about this new job because it is a step up from what I have been doing and I am finally going to be putting my degree to use and will be challenged! I have always regretted not going to grad school or getting a "real" job in my field, but now am doing just that! !

Hopefully this will be the first of many triumphs! !!


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 940 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2367 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Awesome!!!!


FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1152 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
NoGoodUsername
♂ 40181
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo! It's great to hear some good news for you.


Me: WH
Her: BW
Dday 7/11/13
"May you be protected from hearts that are not humble, tongues that are not wise and eyes that have forgotten how to cry."

Posts: 261 | Registered: Aug 2013
Mrs Panda
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I knew you would succeed. The first step was to throw away fear and believe you could get anther job. good job, Alyssa.


Me-41 FWW Him-45BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

Posts: 2008 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! Wonderful update!

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badchoice
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such wonderful news. Congrats!


Me: fWH/BH 46

Separated transitioning to D


Posts: 730 | Registered: May 2012 | From: L.A.
cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Alyssa! Best of luck in this new chapter of your life!!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 514 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone! I am very excited about this new chapter and am so happy about it. My BH is also very happy about it....it is one of the many changes happening in our life right now but is definitely a good one.

Our DD has also started at her new preschool and is adjusting...she misses her old school and old friends but I think will do fine once she gets more comfortable with the new school.


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 940 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Alyssa))

This news is terrific, thanks for sharing. I'm also sensing from this post that R is going well so far, and that's super exciting to hear!


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
Trying33
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news!

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SandAway
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Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree _ great news!

so happy for you Alyssam


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great and positive changes!


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations Alyssa! I'm very happy for you!!!


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1525 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Blobette
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is so great! As someone who's been following your posts, it is just so wonderful to see how you've turned around from so many things NOT being possible (switching preschool for your DD) to now being totally possible and even wonderful! I wish you all the best!


BS (me): 50
WS: 50
Married: 26 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1061 | Registered: Aug 2012
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone for the well wishes!! I am proud that I finally made the right choice and am trying to change and thank those of you who encouraged me.

I am very excited to have a real "grown up" professional job and am nervous for something knew, but am ready for the challenge and hope I do well at it.


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 940 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
cliffside
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me: BS 39
Him: WH 41
2 Kids
D-Day: 2/3/13
Broke NC 3/14
Very skeptically in R for now...

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