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Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 1:35 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
I am happy to report that after 5 weeks of being unemployed I finally have a new job/career. The other job that I thought I had fell through, but luckily I went on an interview Friday and was hired on the spot!! I start next week!!!
I am excited about this new job because it is a step up from what I have been doing and I am finally going to be putting my degree to use and will be challenged! I have always regretted not going to grad school or getting a "real" job in my field, but now am doing just that! !
Hopefully this will be the first of many triumphs! !!
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 1:38 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Congrats! 
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SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 1:55 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
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NoGoodUsername ( member #40181) posted at 2:02 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Bravo! It's great to hear some good news for you.
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Mrs Panda ( member #27303) posted at 2:03 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
I knew you would succeed. The first step was to throw away fear and believe you could get anther job. good job, Alyssa.
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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:05 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Congrats! Wonderful update! 
badchoice ( member #35566) posted at 3:05 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Such wonderful news. Congrats!
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cinnamongurl ( member #37879) posted at 3:36 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Congrats Alyssa! Best of luck in this new chapter of your life!!
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Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 3:52 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Thank you everyone! I am very excited about this new chapter and am so happy about it. My BH is also very happy about it....it is one of the many changes happening in our life right now but is definitely a good one.
Our DD has also started at her new preschool and is adjusting...she misses her old school and old friends but I think will do fine once she gets more comfortable with the new school.
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
20WrongsVs1 ( member #39000) posted at 3:58 AM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
((Alyssa))
This news is terrific, thanks for sharing. I'm also sensing from this post that R is going well so far, and that's super exciting to hear!
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Trying33 ( member #38815) posted at 12:36 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
SandAway ( member #37775) posted at 12:38 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
I agree _ great news!
so happy for you Alyssam
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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 2:07 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Great and positive changes!
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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 3:07 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Great news!
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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 3:24 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Congratulations Alyssa! I'm very happy for you!!!
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Blobette ( member #36519) posted at 4:32 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
This is so great! As someone who's been following your posts, it is just so wonderful to see how you've turned around from so many things NOT being possible (switching preschool for your DD) to now being totally possible and even wonderful! I wish you all the best!
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Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 4:42 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Thank you everyone for the well wishes!! I am proud that I finally made the right choice and am trying to change and thank those of you who encouraged me.
I am very excited to have a real "grown up" professional job and am nervous for something knew, but am ready for the challenge and hope I do well at it.
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
cliffside ( member #38803) posted at 10:41 PM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
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180ing, in a state of WTFness
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