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User Topic: 5 Types of Guys to Meet but not to Marry
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Question  Posted: 7:52 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So ladies, those of us starting over... What do you think of this list of 5 types of guys to meet but not to marry? Guys, what do you think of the list?


(physical list):
BTW - I was married to #3

[This message edited by hurtbs at 7:53 PM, September 29th (Sunday)]

DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eh, I'm just not into these kind of generalities. People are so complex that I don't think you can lump them into categories so easily. I just don't think you can assume things will end up the way this article predicts. People can change.

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like the point that you can enjoy your time with a variety of men, but if you are seeking to settle down those men would be less than ideal.

I think #1 applied to an old boyfriend. I was madly in love with this guy in my twenties and he professed his love no end but he never committed to anything and I stayed way way way too long. 5 years is a colossal waste of time.

I don't know that 'every woman needs' to date these guys. One is probably enough. 5? Oi Vey.

[This message edited by InnerLight at 9:52 AM, September 30th (Monday)]

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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WxSO was #1.

Me: BGF - 34

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You left me here to forget about that
All the things you thought you had have gone
Let that be a lesson to you
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