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hurtbs posted 9/29/2013 19:52 PM

So ladies, those of us starting over... What do you think of this list of 5 types of guys to meet but not to marry? Guys, what do you think of the list?

(video) http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/archive/segment/5-types-of-guys-to-meet-but-not-to-marry/5227b1b478c90a4b580000fb

(physical list):
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/20/men-not-to-marry_n_3757609.html
BTW - I was married to #3

[This message edited by hurtbs at 7:53 PM, September 29th (Sunday)]

kernel posted 9/29/2013 20:19 PM

Eh, I'm just not into these kind of generalities. People are so complex that I don't think you can lump them into categories so easily. I just don't think you can assume things will end up the way this article predicts. People can change.

InnerLight posted 9/30/2013 09:50 AM

I like the point that you can enjoy your time with a variety of men, but if you are seeking to settle down those men would be less than ideal.

I think #1 applied to an old boyfriend. I was madly in love with this guy in my twenties and he professed his love no end but he never committed to anything and I stayed way way way too long. 5 years is a colossal waste of time.

I don't know that 'every woman needs' to date these guys. One is probably enough. 5? Oi Vey.

[This message edited by InnerLight at 9:52 AM, September 30th (Monday)]

Whalers11 posted 9/30/2013 19:20 PM

My WxSO was #1.