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User Topic: Woke up to this text this morning
Kelany
♀ 34755
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love you so much. Each day I love you more and more. From the way you look at me with your beautiful blue eyes to the way you touch me. I regret what I did to you and how much I hurt you, lied and let you down. I want you in my life forever. You complete me. I love our family. I canít wait to see you this afternoon. I miss you and love you.

Nice way to start off my Monday morning.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
StillStanding1
♀ 40144
Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

very nice!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 741 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
forgivingnow
♀ 33549
Member # 33549
Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful !!! Very happy for you.


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 619 | Registered: Oct 2011
SoVerySadNow
♀ 36711
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh how I would love a note like that.

Wonderful!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
RippedSoul
♀ 40055
Member # 40055
Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That made MY day!!!


BW: 49; SLAWH: 46; M: 23 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute #1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (AP, escorts #1 & #2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 20; DD: 18; DS: 16; DS: 14
PS: I've NEVER NOT edited my posts

Posts: 477 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
Blobette
♀ 36519
Member # 36519
Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwwwww!


BS (me): 50
WS: 50
Married: 26 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1061 | Registered: Aug 2012
Dreamland
♀ 40488
Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

💕💖💓


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
thecosmogirl
♀ 39707
Member # 39707
Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How awesome is that?


Me: BS
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...

Being very, very careful

D-day 14 June 2013


I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!


Posts: 169 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out
HardenMyHeart
♂ 15902
Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5717 | Registered: Aug 2007
Marathonwaseasy
♀ 40674
Member # 40674
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing that


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
topperoff22
♀ 40762
Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Geez....wish I'd get something like that. My husband is so clueless.

I wanted to edit this to say I have gotten some really nice texts from him in the past. I am just down right now. And I think this is so great for you and so sweet!

[This message edited by topperoff22 at 10:43 PM, September 30th (Monday)]


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
ontheslope
♂ 40574
Member # 40574
Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I get those kinds of texts from my wife from time to time. It is nice...makes me smile. But... I don't really feel anything for her, so it's hard for me to really appreciate them they way I should. It almost makes it awkward, in a way.

That being said - I hope everyone gets a text like that from someone at some point. They do lift you up.


Me: BH, 36
Her: WW, 37
Two girls 8 & 10
Married 12 years
Dday: July, 2009

She wants answers... I'm still trying to figure out what the questions are.


Posts: 269 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Maine, USA
Getting to Happy
♀ 35200
Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sweet!


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1144 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
struggling3
♀ 34671
Member # 34671
Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How wonderful for you...I'm smiling for you :))))


Me - BS 55
H - WS 57/very remorseful and supportive
Kids 29, 26, 22
D-Day 8-5-11
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

Posts: 331 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
catlover50
♀ 37154
Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful!!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1816 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
iamsurviving
23478
Member # 23478
Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a wonderful text to wake up to. You are blessed.


Me: BS (61)
Him: WH (64
Married: 41 years
Kids: 3, Grandkids - 6
EA/PA - 6 years -
DDay - 12/16/07
DDay - 10/20/11
DDay - 8/15/12

Posts: 265 | Registered: Apr 2009
meplusfour
♀ 38958
Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great way to start the week!


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 392 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
3kids30years
♀ 38879
Member # 38879
Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you - great start to the week.


BS - mid 50's
WH - mid 50's
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm
TT until 9/02/13
NC broken 4/15/14
2year+ "passionate" EA/PA

Married 30+ years and here I am. Heartbroken.
4/14 Trying to make it thru each day
9/14 - getting better. we


Posts: 218 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Nor Cal
confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FWH has been sending me texts like that,several times a week,for the last few years.

I used to feel the same way you did,ontheslope. I felt nothing. Or I'd feel annoyed. but I didn't feel loved..nor did I feel love for him.

But,with time and a remorseful WS, those feelings can,and often do, come back.

I have learned to accept his words of love and affection..and even believe them.

Wonderful thing to wake up to,SamanthaBaker. Thank you for sharing. We need more postive stories here in the R forum.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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