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FieldsOfLavender posted 9/30/2013 08:57 AM

Cheating, irrational, delusional f*cker moved out in summer. After he told me that OWhore was going to have a baby after telling our child first, I bagged his winter clothes that he left (mostly sweaters) and drove several bags of his clothes to the local donation store. Now he's looking for those clothes.

Gee, I thought he didn't want them since he left them behind. He thinks I've gone ballistic. After finding out about the deliberate pregnancy with his whore, I was blinded by rage. Now I see just fine.

Take2 posted 9/30/2013 09:04 AM

Is it bad that this made me smile?

sunsetslost posted 9/30/2013 09:22 AM

I've been throwing away plates and glasses instead of washing them. Most were wedding gifts. Not smashing as my therapist suggested, just throwing them away with the rest of the trash. She commented about the dwindling cabinet contents. I did not respond.

FieldsOfLavender posted 9/30/2013 09:23 AM

Is it bad that this made me smile?

Thank you. I'm glad it made you smile.

I told stbx-asshole that I'm doing him a favor. He wants to start a new life with whore, he should get a new wardrobe. I directed him to the 2nd hand store where I dropped off his stuff and said that he'd better hurry before the good stuff is gone.

I also told him that he should get his whore to get him a new wardrobe.

cantlivewithouth posted 9/30/2013 09:39 AM

Did the same thing to the crap my XH left behind. When I moved out of the house almost 2 years after he left and over a year after the divorce was final he wanted all his stuff back. So sorry butthead, I don't know what happened to it. You must have taken it with you.

Had a great tax write-off though.

Snapdragon posted 9/30/2013 10:04 AM

I guess he shouldn't have left his stuff behind. You are not his personal storage space.

FieldsOfLavender posted 9/30/2013 10:13 AM

It surprises me how upset asshole sounds when texting me. For some reason, I thought he wouldn't care ... like he hasn't care much about anything the past few years.

Some stuff I kept, because they are nicer. I don't know what to do with it, but didn't want to drop it off at the donation place. However, I did force myself to donate a nice pair of shoes I got for him. I heard an old wives tale not to buy shoes for your significant other. Ladies, don't buy your significant other shoes. Because that's what they will be wearing when they leave you.

FieldsOfLavender posted 9/30/2013 10:15 AM

Snapdragon, the lyrics of the song by Pink that you have in your footer, made me cry when I first heard it, driving in the car. Anybody looking at me would have seen the tears streaming down my cheeks.

Cookie7088 posted 9/30/2013 12:06 PM

He thinks I've gone ballistic.

No you did a very reasonable thing, and might I had a very good deed!

Ballistic is putting them out on the lawn..grabbing a gas can and a match....now, that's ballistic!

flygirl123 posted 9/30/2013 21:01 PM

What he didn't take...I burned.

Or donated to a charity.

Or tossed in the trash.

Or used to bed down our chickens.

He asked for all of what he left two years after he walked out. All I could say was "oops! Better luck next time!"

By the way...Air Force Uniforms don't actually burn...they kinda just melt.

sparkysable posted 10/1/2013 10:26 AM

Or used to bed down our chickens.

FieldsOfLavender posted 10/1/2013 17:46 PM

Ballistic is putting them out on the lawn..grabbing a gas can and a match....now, that's ballistic!

I thought about your response. And "crazy" is burning his shit in the living room.

FieldsOfLavender posted 10/1/2013 18:17 PM

I have a question for everyone. My STBX says what I did is very immature. I am thinking it is deeper than that. For me, it goes to the bone and to my soul. I don't see it as mature/immature. I am PISSED and HURT to my soul.

peridot posted 10/1/2013 18:45 PM

The only thing you did wrong was not donating them all over the state lmao.

Too bad for him, he should have gotten all his shit.

Phoenix1 posted 10/1/2013 22:31 PM

My STBX says what I did is very immature.

My STBX POS went ape shit when I told him after he left that I put all his personal belongings in a trailer on our property we were using for storage. He told me that "normal people" don't "sanitize" their spouse from the house and the spouse is at least allowed the courtesy of picking up their own things. My response? You are lucky it was stored safely in the trailer and not thrown on the front lawn in Hefty bags because that is what "normal" people do when their spouse betrays them for 20 years!

I also had great personal satisfaction in putting his prized suits in an old toilet box... though I highly doubt he even caught on to the irony of that one...

gonnabe2016 posted 10/1/2013 23:22 PM

My STBX says what I did is very immature


Yea, as if *his* opinion carries any weight......

Nature_Girl posted 10/1/2013 23:29 PM

Oh Fuck Me! He said what to you? That you did something immature? Oh I see. So, something like forgetting that when you get married means you don't fuck around with other people, that's not immature? That you can't hold to a sacred vow? That's not immature?

Pot. Meet Kettle.

FieldsOfLavender posted 10/1/2013 23:33 PM

Oh Fuck Me! He said what to you? That you did something immature? Oh I see. So, something like forgetting that when you get married means you don't fuck around with other people, that's not immature? That you can't hold to a sacred vow? That's not immature?

NatureGirl, you made me laugh through my tears. :( :)

Nature_Girl posted 10/1/2013 23:51 PM

That's how we roll here!

Gajit posted 10/2/2013 13:05 PM

I have a nice fire pit that WH built for those cozy nights we used to spend together.
After the D is final, I am going to have a bonfire, complete with marshmallows and s'mores!
Oh, and wine! LOL

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