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traditoperanni (original poster member #32660) posted at 10:40 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
I just stumbled on a website for guess who the "other woman" It is a "supportive place for the "others" involved in a extramarital affair. Really?
This is so offensive to me I wish I could take a match to it.
There are individual stories of what the poor OW is going through.
I can't tell you how angry this makes me to see all of this BS.
I mean, these poor dears they need a place to go that they feel "safe" where they can
talk freely about their experiences and where they can decide if they will leave or continue to destroy another life.
So, what now? Should there be a forum for pedophiles to go it to get support? I mean, really??
[This message edited by SI Staff at 4:44 PM, September 30th (Monday)]
Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 10:44 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Please do not post URL/site names of other message boards that support the OP. All that does is encourage a board war.
Whether you agree or not, they have their place just as you have yours.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 10:48 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Yes there are these sites and there is one where the BS's and the OW/OM/WS can post on each others forums. Most things are open for debate.
I know what you mean though. It gives you a sickening feeling when you see those that bask in their glory over their crappy acts in destroying others lives. It definitely gives you a glimpse into what goes through an OW's mind.
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
traditoperanni (original poster member #32660) posted at 10:50 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Deeply Scared,
Sorry, Did not realize what I did.
You can remove this if you wish.
Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet
heartache101 ( member #26465) posted at 11:01 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
I bet there is a place for all of them to go and talk..
I would never want to be the WS or AP.
There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:15 AM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
Yuck. Tempting to go in and play the part and then rip them all a new one.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 12:28 AM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
traditoperanni...
Its ok...we realize you didn't post this to cause any problems...just more of venting it out which is always good to do here 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
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