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Topic: Why Am I not surprised,

traditoperanni
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Member # 32660

Posted: 4:40 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013

I just stumbled on a website for guess who the "other woman" It is a "supportive place for the "others" involved in a extramarital affair. Really?
This is so offensive to me I wish I could take a match to it.

There are individual stories of what the poor OW is going through.
I can't tell you how angry this makes me to see all of this BS.
I mean, these poor dears they need a place to go that they feel "safe" where they can
talk freely about their experiences and where they can decide if they will leave or continue to destroy another life.
So, what now? Should there be a forum for pedophiles to go it to get support? I mean, really??

[This message edited by SI Staff at 4:44 PM, September 30th (Monday)]

Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet

Posts: 449 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California

Deeply Scared
♀ 2
Member # 2

Posted: 4:44 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013

Please do not post URL/site names of other message boards that support the OP. All that does is encourage a board war.

Whether you agree or not, they have their place just as you have yours.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

Posts: 209356 | Registered: May 2002

crazyblindsided
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Member # 35215

Posted: 4:48 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013

Yes there are these sites and there is one where the BS's and the OW/OM/WS can post on each others forums. Most things are open for debate.

I know what you mean though. It gives you a sickening feeling when you see those that bask in their glory over their crappy acts in destroying others lives. It definitely gives you a glimpse into what goes through an OW's mind.

BS/FWS (me):42 Madhatter
WS/BS:45 Serial Cheater
Together 20 years, Married 15
DD(13) DS(10)
DDay(s) Too many to count
Final Dday 7/11/14 Same OW2
Ducks in a Row!
"Never seek validation from those who are unworthy."

Posts: 3773 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California

traditoperanni
♀ 32660
Member # 32660

Posted: 4:50 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013

Deeply Scared,

Sorry, Did not realize what I did.
You can remove this if you wish.

Posts: 449 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California

heartache101
♀ 26465
Member # 26465

Posted: 5:01 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013

I bet there is a place for all of them to go and talk..
I would never want to be the WS or AP.

There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3222 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana

tushnurse
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Member # 21101

Posted: 6:15 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013

Yuck. Tempting to go in and play the part and then rip them all a new one.

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 11633 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis

Deeply Scared
♀ 2
Member # 2

Posted: 6:28 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013

traditoperanni...

Its ok...we realize you didn't post this to cause any problems...just more of venting it out which is always good to do here

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

Posts: 209356 | Registered: May 2002

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