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User Topic: Overbearing
♀ 40716
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been 4 months and I feel like it's been 4 days. I'm on my rollercoater again and I want to get off. I find myself calling my H several times before he even calls me back. I can't stop. I want to stop being overbearing cause I feel I'm going to lose him. Why am I this way? Is anyone else like this?

Posts: 5 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Illinois
♀ 39588
Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes I can be. I started reading codependent no more and it's helping me tons!

Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

Filed for divorce 5/8/15

Posts: 326 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 40382
Member # 40382
Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yes, I did the same thing, calling him all the time till he came back to me. I just wanted the pain to stop and I knew it would if he came back to me. That was 20 years of that mental co/ dependent crap. He left me in the end anyways, sometimes I still want to call him but I don't. He is gone and I am healing, slowly and not without pain but I am going to be ok. prayers and hugs to you, don't beat yourself up. follow your heart.

Posts: 91 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Calif.
Topic Posts: 3

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