Late August was final settlement. Not thrilled but ok I will live with it. September 1, don't receive ss or cs. I finally get it on 9/15. Per the new order I am to receive it on the first.
Guess what I get in the mail today. STBXH has lost his job and is taking me back to court to modify cs & ss!. I can't catch a break. Yes, thats right folks, just under 3 weeks after new orders are in place with more $ to me plus a chunk of $ to me by next year. I smell a rat and something is fishy.
So while STBXH is living the high life with OW#3, supporting her and her kids, my son and I will get zip because he is now out of a job. I know him, he is going to work under the table until DS is 18 so he doesn't have to pay as much.
What even gets worse is I have major surgery scheduled for the middle of October. I am still on STBXH plan, until formally divorced. Now I don't know what my status is. This is surgery I have waited years to get.
Just wondering how the "new" family is taking him not bringing in the $. Because it is a lot he is not bringing in. And imo, she liked the $ because her house was for sale until she met STBXH and she immediately took it off the market.
I think STBXH asked to be laid off so that he didn't have to pay $.
3 weeks. I am soooo stressed again. Just when I was thinking I was moving forward. Now with no lawyer (and no $ to hire one) I haven't a clue what the hell I am going to do.
I get that life isn't fair, but darn it, sometimes I want just a little to go my way.
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen