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Lonelygirl10 posted 10/1/2013 11:22 AM

My wBF and I had a really serious talk last night about everything. It's the most honest I've been about my doubts and feelings.

Today I woke up to alot of really sweet messages. He hasn't talked to me like this since before Dday. And then he sent me an email of a counselor he found to ask if the guy looked ok to me. I replied yes, and he's already set up the appointment for Saturday!

I feel like he's taking control, and it's like a huge burden has been lifted off my chest. Actually feeling hopeful.

We are going to try both MC (communication issues) and IC (A issues) with the same person. It's a male counselor, which I have mixed feelings about. I feel a little uncomfortable talking to a guy about sex, but wBF feels more comfortable with it. I have my own IC, so I want to focus more on what makes him comfortable. The guy is a certified marriage counselor.

Are there any questions we should ask on the first appointment to make sure he's right for us?

Dallas2 posted 10/1/2013 12:04 PM

Glad to hear things are going so well for you.

I think I would ask if they were in a relationship and a partner strayed what would they do. We had a MC who would D or leave right away. I don't think this person was the right MC. Ask any other questions that you feel are important. Sometimes you can tell the first visit and sometimes it takes a couple of times to decide.

Good luck

Camalus posted 10/1/2013 13:03 PM

There is a great post with question to ask a potential MC.

It is buried and I didn't see it until someone pointed it out.

Hope this helps:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/healing_library/reconciliation/choosing_therapist.asp

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