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User Topic: Year 2 when not in R
♀ 38650
Member # 38650
Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I often read here on SI for those trying to r, year 2 is very difficult. What is year 2 like for those of you who chose not to stay? At close to 5 months of separation, and 8 since dday I have found some much needed peace. Just curious what to expect. Did your rollercoaster start over once you filed for d? You have to live apart a year before filing here.

Posts: 247 | Registered: Mar 2013
♀ 32211
Member # 32211
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe you might get more responses from the divorce/separated forum. Most people who hang out here are trying to R...maybe ask a mod to move this.

I can't offer any advice/opinion but glad to hear you're 5 months out and have peace that's definitely promising and not a lifetime of hanging on to the XWS even after they've forgotten all about the BS.

BS: 40
WS: 42
Two boys 13/11
Married 15 years
Dday: too Many to remember. 3 significant OW and many "less"'significant OW. Believe WS has bad boundaries and craves the attention.
In R.

Posts: 1019 | Registered: May 2011
♀ 38650
Member # 38650
Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. Honestly it would be more peace if he did forget. He really wants to r, but it is a deal breaker for me, at least for now.

Posts: 247 | Registered: Mar 2013
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