I'm struggling, knowing that I have to live with the consequences of his cheating. As if the emotional fallout isn't enough, I have to live with the financial consequences too. I hate it. even moreso I detest knowing that DS is having to do without, even in some small way, as a consequence of fWH and his time with his whore
whilst in his A, fWH got fired from his job - 'cause he was taking so much time off to be with OW. We were apart at that time, and it's clear from the money he (and OW) spent, the spare time, energy, and more importantly space he had only served to fuel the A.
He had no debt prior to his A.
He is now, or rather, WE are now having to pay off his debt.
BTW ow didn't shell out much, it was fWH who was paying. He bought her a new mobile...her H had gps set up on her mobile, and was on her tracks it seems.
I hate that we're now having to cut back because of his A. It makes me so