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So when the news came out about this minister being shot and killed during his sermon I thought "oh boy I bet this is infidelity related." Then it comes out today that the minister was allegedly the OM with a former deacon being the BS and his wife the WW. Supposedly the wife or WW filed rape charges against the pastor several days before the shooting. The whole thing is just so sad.

Being a PK (preachers kid) myself I'm quite aware of the hypocrisy of the clergy. In my family's case the deacon was the OM while my father was the BS. At least my dad didn't kill him although I certainly understand the sentiment.

My Mom cheated on my Dad with the pastor of the little shithole church I was dragged to kicking and screaming for most of my childhood. She's married to the piece of shit now. I'm glad my Dad didn't shoot him. Not that he adds a ton of value to society but it's more fun visiting my Dad at his house than it would be if he was in jail.

As soon as I found out that A) the guy who shot him was a deacon, and B) the dude turned himself in, I immediately, IMMEDIATELY told myself that the pastor had been screwing that man's wife. I knew it.

Me too.

My Bible study group mentioned this new story tonight and they were just so stunned that someone would actually shoot the pastor!

I said without thinking, "He was probably cheating with the deacon's wife."

I soooo wish I had kept my comment to myself. It just popped out.

Yeah mixed feelings on this one since one of my STBX's AP's was also a "Pastor". One of the reaons I can't seem to be comfortable for to long in any church anymore. Yeah bible study will be awkward tonight for sure as this will surely be discussed at some point.