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User Topic: Somebody dance with me...
918Mama
♀ 37756
Member # 37756
Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's after 5pm here. My kids are with their dad and my house is empty.

I've worked through some tough memories today and read lots of pain so many of you are dealing with.

So I just took a few minutes, by myself, in my bedroom, to dance.

Listen to the song "Lose yourself to
dance" by Daft Punk. Then turn it up real loud and lose yourself.

Talking about all of this mess that we all find ourselves in is important. But so is giving yourself a break. So take a minute and have a dance party. In your living room. In your bathroom. Wherever.

Someone around here's got a tag line that says "there's shortcuts to happiness and dancing is one of them."

It's true. Give it a shot.

And no excuses...I have a torn calf muscle. No one has to see you act a fool. Unless you like that!!


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 600 | Registered: Dec 2012
heartbroken0903
♀ 27879
Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, such an apropos post right now, because I was a huuuuge dork a few minutes ago and danced along to the YouTube video of possibly my favorite live performance ever, "Solsbury Hill" by Peter Gabriel on Letterman. Yessir I did, right in my living room. And it was fun!


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2368 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, fun beat!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10137 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
918Mama
♀ 37756
Member # 37756
Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh that's awesome HB!

I'm dancing like a dork right there with you. I decided to just keep dancing. So I'm hosting my own SI dance party.

I can't go workout with my leg right now so at least this is cardio, right??


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 600 | Registered: Dec 2012
918Mama
♀ 37756
Member # 37756
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Come on Nature Girl...you know you wanna dance too! :-)


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 600 | Registered: Dec 2012
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Someone around here's got a tag line that says "there's shortcuts to happiness and dancing is one of them."

Hey that's me. Hope24 actually pointed me to that quote. Thanks Hope!

Dancing is great.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53322 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Swims
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Content  Posted: 9:36 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ABBA......Dancing Queen.....you've got me going

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: East Coast
MsRukia
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a great idea. I like dancing with my kiddos.


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 177 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, you wanna get down and see me dance? Yeah baby.....

TURN! IT! UP!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3svW8PM_jc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31FpTAD7smE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OAwaNWGLM0c

LOUDER, PLEASE!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuJQSAiODqI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ldi9677mj60

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0fhHLliKJI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jLGa4X5H2c


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10137 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
918Mama
♀ 37756
Member # 37756
Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Swims - I'm right there with you!! My 35th birthday, too many bottles of wine and dancing queen. Good times! I'll bust that song out later just for you!

Nature Girl - you actually made me bust out laughing. Alright girl - you brought it. And I will dance to every. Single. One. :-)

Now to see what treasures you've left!!


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 600 | Registered: Dec 2012
Want To Wake Up
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Member # 31583
Default  Posted: 1:22 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Somebody dance with me...

Did someone say "dance"?





Me 54
WH 54
Met 1978
Married 1981
DDay 2009
Latest TT... Nov 2013 (yep, 2013... not a typo!)
"Adultery is not a symptom of a struggling marriage....a struggling marriage is a result of a person who can chose adultery."- saw this on SI

Posts: 478 | Registered: Mar 2011
918Mama
♀ 37756
Member # 37756
Default  Posted: 1:53 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Look at you go, WTWU!! Love it!!!

Nature girl - you picked some great songs. Had to laugh at Ms. Jackson in the middle of some great oldies!!


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 600 | Registered: Dec 2012
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