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User Topic: Karma struck the OW
♀ 30883
Member # 30883
Default  Posted: 1:51 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So here's something that may make you smile when things seem to have so much injustice when you're the BS. It's been a while since I've been on this forum but since then the OW lost her job because "unofficially" she was seen not to be trustworthy once the affair came to light with my XH (they worked together). She was the only one let go from the department. I heard through the grapevine from one of the managers that was the reason. It's good that the world does actually take notice of when people do bad things like have an affair with a married man with little kids. She was unemployed for at least 6 months. During this past year she and my XH have broken up 2 times, and I think they're back together - both times he broke it off and she threw furniture at him...I'm so glad I don't have to deal with his emotional problems anymore! They both got what they asked for, and justice is being done, haha!

Me: 40, happily divorced Dec11
D-Day #1 - 9th Jan 11, D-Day #2 - 13th Jan 11
Kids - 4, 8 yrs

Posts: 324 | Registered: Jan 2011
♀ 37696
Member # 37696
Default  Posted: 1:54 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am smiling for you :) always a good thing when the Karma bus comes. I

Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else
would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.

Posts: 84 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 25743
Member # 25743
Default  Posted: 2:48 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is so hard to try to forge a real marriage with someone who you already KNOW you can't trust.

Posts: 485 | Registered: Oct 2009
♀ 33867
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 2:52 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Makes me smile.

ME: 57 BS
HIM: 64 WH
Married: 32 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 6 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

Posts: 2439 | Registered: Nov 2011
♀ 37735
Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 6:19 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Made my day!

I hope this is just the start of what Karma will bring her.

I have to live vicariously thru you, since OW in our case has gone on with her life seemingly unscathed.

Someone who would try to destroy an intact family with kids for her own selfish desires deserves the worst that life can give them. How can someone not care about destroying the children's world like that.
Sorry to sound so hateful, but I have never hated anyone so much as I hate OW.

I hope this news helps give you some closure & helps you to move on with the rest of your life knowing you made the right decision.

If it wasn't early morning & if I wasn't getting ready for
work, I'd break out a bottle of champagne for you.


[This message edited by mchercheur at 6:19 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday)]

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 27+ years/Together 28+ years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

Posts: 2462 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 30631
Member # 30631
Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love Karma stories!! I always look forward to:
"The Karma Bedtime Book".

In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!

Posts: 917 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
♀ 40617
Member # 40617
Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SWEET - couldn't have happened to a more deserving person. Boy does it feel good to hear about her just deserves
Hope today is a great day for us BS, because we deserve to be happy.
(((HUGS))) abound.

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
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