My FWW and I both brought a child into our marriage and neither of us was married before. Her son has called me dad from the time he was 2.5, hes almost 17 now. His biological dad has been out of the picture up until about 3 yrs ago, around the time of FWW ONS at a class reunion. We're half the country away from her home state where the ONS happened and where loser dad(LD) lives.
He sent FWW an email asking for info about DS. Previously DS said he didn't really want anything to do with LD which to me that meant NC. We talked that part out and DS was ok to give LD info. I asked my FWW what she sent and she said just info on DS. I pressed her a little bit and asked her what else she said. She finally admitted that she ended the email with the question "How are you doing?" I was upset to hear this, but I also specifically asked her if she asked about his job, he has been paying child support regularly for the past few months and that is new. She said no. I saw the email, I know that she did ask and lied. She sent this email about a month ago.
I know they had a child together but he's out of the picture. I respect DS wishes to allow LD to know whats going on in his life. What is FWW hoping to get out of asking how he's doing, how's his new job. WTF does it matter to her? She said he just answered by saying he's fine. I only half believe her. This is really bothering me. I know there is absolutely no chance for another A but WTF?