My court case ended in 2010, with FT having NOT turned in his full financials. My attny busted him on the stand, and the judge gave him 90 days to get them all in so she could determine CS - which for us would include hefty medical, since the Bunt has Cystic Fibrosis.
FFWD - he has never turned in accurate financials, because he cheats in taxes and business, has several "side" businesses that he doesn't claim, and won't ever admit to his full income. In addition, to pay ANY medical for the Bunt since his diagnosis in 2008, he required detailed invoices of everything - even though I had full documentation of all expenses through online records and statements.
My attny never billed me a final bill - I know I got out of thousands upon thousands of dollars - but he also has all my medical records for 2008-2012.
The medical FT would owe for that 5 years would be around $5k. Not enough for me to pay the attorney for and fight with getting financials on FT - would cost me much more than that, which is FT's angle - has gotten him out of paying anything at all.
This year - I saved everything - every single receipt, invoice, etc... including invoices for extracurricular activities. My medical is now maxed out, so I sent an email (we communicate only through documented sources) saying I had everything, and that I am willing to split both 50/50 between us, without lawyers, and how did he want to handle it.
Crickets. It's been over two weeks, and I've gotten no response.
Meanwhile, they want me to switch days with them in November. I didn't respond to the email right away, and I just got another one asking that I please be considerate and let them know ASAP.
I guess he is thinking that if he ignores it, it will go away. We are talking around $1000 as his half of out of pocket expense for the year. Not a ton of money - but should be shared between us, and not all on me to be responsible for.
Grrrrrr - wondering how long to wait, and what to do if I get no response. It isn't worth involving a lawyer...
Just file a req for CS myself through the courts? My attny is still listed as my representation though - and our case is still listed as "active".