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SoOver96 posted 10/2/2013 16:01 PM

He left home in one shirt and came home in another and he says he was at his friends house well this friend has a nasty smell to his house and it travels with WS so I know he wasn't there

Nature_Girl posted 10/2/2013 16:33 PM

Good job catching that error!

SoOver96 posted 10/2/2013 17:18 PM

I know right and there's gain on his shirt he's wearing and we us sun

SoOver96 posted 10/2/2013 17:36 PM

Meant use

How many betrayed spouses have told there WS that they are on this site? I haven't yet should I?

heartache101 posted 10/2/2013 17:38 PM

Soover
What are you going to do?

crazyblindsided posted 10/2/2013 17:38 PM

How many betrayed spouses have told there WS that they are on this site? I haven't yet should I?

I have but only recently, not when I was in detective mode

I had to see remorse first.

Nature_Girl posted 10/2/2013 17:42 PM

I did NOT tell him. No way. I needed a safe place, and this was it.

SoOver96 posted 10/2/2013 17:57 PM

Heartache at this point I don't know what I'm going to do but I'm doing the 180 like I've been reading and even doing it to my monster in law my WS doesn't like silent treatment or not saying I love you :-) but I'm doing it

SoOver96 posted 10/2/2013 18:12 PM

Heartache at this point I don't know what I'm going to do but I'm doing the 180 like I've been reading and even doing it to my monster in law my WS doesn't like silent treatment or not saying I love you :-) but I'm not saying it back

reclaimingmyself posted 10/3/2013 09:17 AM

How many betrayed spouses have told there WS that they are on this site? I haven't yet should I?
When I thought we were reconcilling I told the now ex about this site. It turned out to be false R and he used a lot of information he found here to take it underground and keep me thinking we were making progress.

IMHO, unless you are working on reconcilliation with a remorseful spouse, I would keep SI to yourself. You need a safe place.

SoOver96 posted 10/3/2013 11:00 AM

I thought id ask since He came home last night and saw me typing on here and he said what are you doing I paused for a minute and said typing well thats what i was doing but he gave me this look the man is not computer savy I wasn't going to lie but I don't want him thinking other wise either we aren't in R because he isn't telling me the truth until he does Then it is what it is I don't understand if he wants to be with me why is he with her all day Wednesday and me and the kids all the other days and 7 nights a week? It's gotten to the point where I'm done crying and ready to set him free. But he says he's not going anywhere

tushnurse posted 10/3/2013 11:18 AM

I told H about this site right away, I felt such relief being on it, and being supported.

He wasn't interested really, he was still in the rugsweeping ok I did this lets move on stage.

He was willing to read a few things I printed out, and listened to me tell him about some things I read.

I don't think he came here after he really got it, but I could be wrong, the point is this site is anonymous for a reason. It's important for you to feel safe to share some of the stuff we share, and if you are worried about your partner seeing it, then no you shouldn't share.

SoOver96 posted 10/3/2013 11:36 AM

No I'm not insecure about telling him about the site I am however scared what he will say about the no contact letter that I wrote my ex my WS is very jealous that part I do not know why because I'm a 36 year old woman I'm disabled he puts my socks and shoes on for me because i can not ( and no thats not why im with him) and in the winter I'm confide to the house because I'm scared of falling. He has the neighbors watch my house even when I'm home I don't even have my closest friend come over we talk more on text and messenger more her husband gets upset because if I'm talking to her on the phone and WS comes home I get off the phone with her because yes I'm going to say it my WS is loud he says he knew what he was getting into when he asked me to marry him so I don't know

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