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Newest Member: Confusedj (47616)

User Topic: IC
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I finally went back to IC today - I haven't seen her since April. And it was good. I think I'm finally ready to work on some things I haven't previously been ready for. They are some uncomfortable issues for me, which I think is why I stopped going for awhile, but I think it's time. She mentioned that she didn't think I would be back today if I wasn't ready for it. The issues in question still make me incredibly uncomfortable but that's part of the process, so I need to just move forward. (Or so I keep telling myself lol)


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4895 | Registered: Mar 2011
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Persevere, you need to persevere.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 54204 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:55 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, Persevere.

Wishing you peace and healing.


"What the everloving fuck?!?!?!" -Solus sto

Posts: 42221 | Registered: Sep 2007
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you. I think I need to go back to IC too.

Moving forward, even in baby steps, is good.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7949 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Myname
♂ 23138
Member # 23138
Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not an easy thing to do. Good job.


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

Posts: 3420 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that's great! I need to get a new IC... thank you for the reminder.

I hope your renewed meetings go well.


If all else fails use fire.

Posts: 22355 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all - I'm half posting this so I stay the course and don't back out.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4895 | Registered: Mar 2011
Myname
♂ 23138
Member # 23138
Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad I'm not the only one that does that.


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

Posts: 3420 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
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