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persevere (original poster member #31468) posted at 3:34 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
So I finally went back to IC today - I haven't seen her since April. And it was good. I think I'm finally ready to work on some things I haven't previously been ready for. They are some uncomfortable issues for me, which I think is why I stopped going for awhile, but I think it's time. She mentioned that she didn't think I would be back today if I wasn't ready for it. 
The issues in question still make me incredibly uncomfortable but that's part of the process, so I need to just move forward. (Or so I keep telling myself lol)
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:36 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
Persevere, you need to persevere. 
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:55 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
Good for you, Persevere.
Wishing you peace and healing.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 10:55 PM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
Good for you. I think I need to go back to IC too.
Moving forward, even in baby steps, is good.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 1:25 AM on Friday, October 4th, 2013
Not an easy thing to do. Good job.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:48 PM on Friday, October 4th, 2013
I think that's great! I need to get a new IC... thank you for the reminder.
I hope your renewed meetings go well.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
persevere (original poster member #31468) posted at 1:41 AM on Saturday, October 5th, 2013
Thank you all - I'm half posting this so I stay the course and don't back out. 
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 2:34 AM on Saturday, October 5th, 2013
I'm glad I'm not the only one that does that. 
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
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