I almost put this comment on your thread with "coda" but didnt want to go off topic. I also almost sent you a PM but wanted any newbies out there to read my post as well.
Basically, I just want to send kudos to you about all of your so well worded & absolutely great advice.
I have also been reading along other threads, will find myself really liking a good response & when I look over to who the user was that did the post....it is you.
You dont have your story posted on your profile but I see you have been with SI for quite some time. Sorry for what you went through but please keep giving the great advice on what you learned through your process.
And newbies out there.....take the advice of ALL the "veteran" SI'er's...they have been there & done that so could save ya some pain.
Thank ALL OF YOU for such great help!!!