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Divorce/Separation :
It is final!

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 mof2 (original poster member #40287) posted at 5:38 PM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

Well, went to court this morning and now my divorce is final. While waiting my turn to see the judge, I just sat there and thought "in true form, here I am taking care of everything and he is off living his life." I then started thinking about everything he had done to me through our marriage and couldn't help think "F'ing a**hole." Left there feeling somewhat happy and got home and really didn't know what to think...just kind of numb to the whole thing. I know it is for the best, but really wish I would have felt that extreme happiness that others had talked about. Time for the next chapter.

BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

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jackfish ( member #40257) posted at 5:50 PM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

Hug.

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newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 5:58 PM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

I felt the same as you. My divorce was just finalized a couple of weeks ago. I didn't feel sad, mad or happy. I was just numb. I do know it's what is best for me though. I guess numb is better than devastated, right ?

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

(((mof2)))

I hope your new beginning is filled with happiness.

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