I've been trying to R with my WH for almost 8 months. Most of the time, it seemed like it was going well, but every month or two we would hit a really bad spot.
Our last one was almost 2 weeks ago and as I've turned it over in my head 100+ times, I've finally realized that he still has a cheater's mentality and not a commitment mentality. Barring some major change, I think it's time for me to start pursuing either a legal S or a D.
Was wondering if someone here wouldn't mind giving me the "Cliff Notes" version of the options.
I know D can be very expensive and we have a DD leaving for college next fall. It sickens me that we could deplete our savings in a D and have nothing left for her. He has continued to pay all the bills even since he moved out 8 months ago. He has always indicated that he will take care of us financially, but certainly I know that these promises can change. (Kinda like those M promises, right?)
I haven't lurked here at all (pretty much avoided this forum, hoping to R), so I'm sorry if this has been covered already... Or perhaps you can steer me to an older thread?
Thanks, in advance, for your help!