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For a frigging week over the xmas holidays. She told me that she wouldn't be able to afford it but she's not paying for it. She didn't volunteer who is paying, and I didn't ask (that's progress, y'all!).

Wow, man, I wish my genitalia could earn me a trip to someplace warm!

She's SUCH a drama queen, this one. It would so be enough for her to just tell you she's going out of town if it impacts her time with the kids at all. But no. She just oozes insecurity and it's so transparent as to why she felt the need to discuss the fact that she's not paying for this expensive trip herself. She wanted so badly for you to ask.

Good for you for not taking her bait. She's so juvenile and mean. Pass, you've surpassed her in class and maturity by miles.

What a bitch. And ridiculously insecure.

For some reason, I envision her trying to break up ex-shat and stripper whore...hilarity obviously ensues. I don't know...something about the way you describe her makes me lump her straight in with stripper-whore. Not sure who that is unkinder to, the princess or stripper whore.

Yep, looking back, according to her reports, she has never been without a man. When I was with her, I told her every day how much I loved her and how beautiful I thought she was. We read that Love Languages book, and it turns out that's her language (mine too, but I received nothing). Since she sure as hell isn't getting from me now, she desperately needs to find it elsewhere.

I've been spending a lot of time looking back, and my vision is 20/20 now. I have a long list of red flags I'll be watching for in future relationships!

And tesla, she deserves to be lumped in with stripper-whore. I don't think we're being unkind to either of them by speaking the truth!

Forgot to mention, when she gave me this little tidbit of news about her trip, it didn't upset me: I didn't sob; I didn't gasp; I didn't get that empty feeling in my chest.

I just thought of whoever is taking her with the mantra a friend gave me: "Poor bastard".

Missed an opportunity. When she volunteered that she wasn't paying for it, should have said "Sure you are....just not with money."

Damn it, justastatistic! Where were you when I needed you?

"Sure you are....just not with money."

It IS the oldest profession...

Far out, I'd rather sew it up.