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User Topic: Slaying the Affair Dragon
♀ 40128
Member # 40128
Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm starting year two of this journey. I feel more stuck than ever. I think part of this has to do with the exhaustion of what I am now calling "slaying the affair dragon" every day. The constant battle. The enduring fight between me and my explicit thoughts. I'm over it!

Is anyone else feeling this way?

I wrote about it today on my blog:

Me: BW
Him: WH
Married 13 years at time of D-Day, 2 small children
D-day 1: 8/16/12 (told it was EA only)
D-day 2: 9/22/12 (the OW confessed to the truth and exposed the PA)
12 month affair, 10 months PA
Today: In MC and IC, attempting R

Posts: 84 | Registered: Jul 2013
♀ 34353
Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am in year two. I tell myself something everyday sometimes more something the MC said to me. I can be angry and rage about what has happened all I want but its not going to change the fact that it happened. I want to let this all go so I try to remember that. I want to be able to breath and not think about it all the time.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.

Posts: 1849 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
♀ 8291
Member # 8291
Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like to be able to slay the a dragon but I still live 2 houses down from the little slut who my h had an a with 9 years ago. It's hard to slay the dragon when it breaths fire on you every day. So with me it remains a constant battle of very horrible memories.

Posts: 2648 | Registered: Sep 2005
Topic Posts: 3

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