I was four months pregnant with baby #4 when I discovered my now XWH had been having affairs. I tried to work it out, and ended up pregnant again. During that 5th pregnancy, I convinced him to get it snipped, because I thought five children was a perfect amount.
My real reason was because I didn't see him changing and knew I wanted to finally leave. I didnt want him remarrying and having some young chick popping a baby out and taking his paycheck, and my children never seeing anything. Waited two more years, and then kicked him out.
Sure enough he went and married a woman 19 years younger. She's got him running around to fertility clinics to see what they can do. I was no idiot. When he went in to have it snipped, I made sure it wasn't just a snip. It was one where they actually removed an inch. There would be no way he could have it reversed.
I have no regrets, and my children are having a better childhood for it.
[This message edited by TrulySad at 8:21 AM, October 4th (Friday)]