BS - Me
At least that is what it feels like! I have been doing so well with NC and trying to reach indifference, and I have been anxiously awaiting our dissolution hearing on October 19th. However, a well meaning friend (and we all know how disastrous that can be) that lives in the area where POS lives was "kind" enough to find out not only where he is living (POS wouldn't tell me) but also sent some pictures for verification that it was him. In those pics, POS, OW#3, and OC#2 are happily taking a walk (OC in stroller) as a nice little family. So, the answer of where OW#3 moved to is now solved. Apparently, when POS secretly came back to my state in July to get his vehicle and trailer of possessions, he also picked up his new family to take back with him.
Yes, I know the glitter will wear off, but DAMN those pics really hurt. In one of them he has his hand on her butt as they are walking! (It's a rear shot.)
Obviously the coward has been waiting for his "out" from our M, and I gave it to him when I told him not to bother coming back after he ran away in March. Hope he is going to be happy with OC being teased about him being called his/her grandpa instead of his dad!
How can these lowlifes just throw their families away like yesterday's trash and start all over again?? I know, I know, it is there NPD in many cases. He NEEDS this to make him feel young and "special." Whatever. He gets to start over with a new family and I am pushing 50 with being alone on my horizon. Yes, I would rather be alone than be living with that hell, but still...
Just a very rough day after months of doing so well. This whore is NOT better than me, and this POS lost the best thing that has ever happened to him! I hope his life implodes just as our M did, and he suffers a horrific life! AAArrrggghhhh! Just sad, sad, sad...first time I've cried since finding out about OC in August, the day after our 22nd anniversary...
[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 5:06 PM, October 4th (Friday)]
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet