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espoir1114 posted 10/5/2013 10:42 AM

Dday was 2 years ago today. I remember reading posts like this in the early, painful months after dday and thinking that I would never make it. But I did.

H and I share an intimacy that we really never had, not even in the honeymoon days of our marriage. Finding out how easily a marriage can fall apart has given us both an appreciation for what we have. It's not perfect - never was - but it's ours. And we fought really hard to keep it.

I still think about it every day, especially OW. It's been 6 months since she last tried to contact H - yes, that's a year and a half of her trying to convince him that he loves her! Pathetic!
My goal for the next year is to push her out of my head for good.

That's all. Hopefully this will give a glimmer of hope to someone who's having a tough day!

LosferWords posted 10/5/2013 11:37 AM

This is a really nice message of hope. Thanks for sharing this!

One of my biggest goals also is vacating any mind space that the OM is currently residing in. Making pretty good progress here, too. Best of continued luck to you.

Marathonwaseasy posted 10/5/2013 11:37 AM

Thank you
The fact that I know it will be at least 2 years before I'm recovered scares me but it's nice to know someone has got there and is ok

AFrayedKnot posted 10/5/2013 11:39 AM

Thank you for the hope!!!

RidingHealingRd posted 10/5/2013 23:38 PM

I will enter year 4 at the end of the month. Last year Dday was terrible and I do not want a repeat of that.

Fortunately the past year was much easier than the previous 2 so I am hoping Dday passed with no drama. I am keeping positive and appreciate your encouraging post. Thank you.

iwillNOT posted 10/6/2013 01:25 AM

That's me, the one having a really tough day...this helped. Thank you...

FeelingSoMuch posted 10/6/2013 14:23 PM

Thank you. Posts like this are a source of strength for me.

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