Dday was 2 years ago today. I remember reading posts like this in the early, painful months after dday and thinking that I would never make it. But I did.
H and I share an intimacy that we really never had, not even in the honeymoon days of our marriage. Finding out how easily a marriage can fall apart has given us both an appreciation for what we have. It's not perfect - never was - but it's ours. And we fought really hard to keep it.
I still think about it every day, especially OW. It's been 6 months since she last tried to contact H - yes, that's a year and a half of her trying to convince him that he loves her! Pathetic!
My goal for the next year is to push her out of my head for good.
That's all. Hopefully this will give a glimmer of hope to someone who's having a tough day!
Trying to forgive and move on.