All of a sudden, this lazy ass dad who did nothing except lay around watching football or chatting on line with whores is now Dad of the Year. My little one said "he has so many fun things for us to do over his pad. He has an xbox and all these games, and we are going to MAKE our halloween costumes. And we made a yodel cake.And he bought us clothes and new pajamas and hair accessories."
Overcompensating much? This arsehole did so little in the past. He has really never played wii or xbox at our house, I don't think I have seen him initiate playing with the kids in years. He has never willingly stepped foot in a children's clothing store and on rare days when I had to have him get the kids ready their clothes were mismatched, hair all knotty, faces dirty. He didn't care. BUT NOW HE IS FATHER OF THE YEAR. I had to beg him to help with homework or bathes or family activities. Now, he is the HERO and lavishing all this attention on them to win them over....it is sickening.
The good news is that is actually better for them now, he will be a better dad.
The bad news is that I feel like I am taking it up the butt. I feel like he gets to betray me, screw me, treat me so disrespectfully and I have to TAKE THE HIGH ROAD because of the kids. WTF? Why does he get to get off scott free? When is going to get his? Man, I know what everyone is going to say about karma, but F**K I want something more immediate and satisfying that teaches this F**Ker that you can't just Screw over your loyal wife and partner of 15 years and not have consequences.
Mother F**ker. I am pissed all over again!!!!
He entertains them the whole time, tries to think up fun things for them to do together. Complains he doesn't get enough time with them to properly father them and help with homework and tuck them in at night. All the things he seemed to avoid in the past.
Apparently, the problem was just with me. I was preventing him from being a good parent by being too controlling and bossy. Yah, I am sure.
It is so discusting. What a pathetic, dispicable, nasty, lowlife, lying, cheating, filthy, narsiccistic mother F**Ker. I know Karma will get him, but I don't have that kind of patience. What an absolute pig I would like to cover his junk in hot sauce and then pick away at his balls bit by bit slowly with a dull cocktail fork.
I can not believe I married this man and thought he was a great guy. He was a lying, cheating pig. I feel soooo stupid. What a waste of 15 years.....
He gave me my two beautiful girls, and I am thankful he didn't abandon them too and that he is trying to do right by them at least, but really, he has already failed them by showing them that honesty, loyalty and love are not important. I really, really, really HATE him.
he has already failed them by showing them that honesty, loyalty and love are not important.
You WILL emerge from this the victor. That outcome may not seem to be anywhere in sight right now, but it is inevitable. For every action there is an equal or greater reaction. People who put their own selfish needs ahead of others will one day have their needs go unmet by those who no longer have any use for them. His day WILL come. If its not his children who reject him in the future, it will be the woman he misjudged as the "beacon of integrity" who will toss him away like the piece of trash he became the day he hooked his star to her broken wagon.