So, this is not my issue at all but rather that of a friend and I am curious.
4 siblings who have lots of kids and elderly but capable parents. It is their brother's turn to host Thanksgiving. Both he/wife work but they have refused to host Thanksgiving. They haven't hosted anything in years.
No one has addressed why he won't host they are just angry that he is not hosting. Mom offered to host but one of the sibs refuses that offer bc it is bro's turn and she feels bro is getting off easy yet again. She is angry that mom et all are rug sweeping.
At this point no one is going anywhere. Pretty sad but wondering if anyone out there has this issue. Did you discuss it? Did anything get worked out? Would you just go to Mom's and everyone bring a dish? I mean....its Thanksgiving for heaven's sake!
I just don't even know what to say to my venting friend.