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User Topic: I'm done. Sent off the papers
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WW and Twerklederk showed up and our son's soccer game the other day. Our son attends school at WW's and I's church, well her former church and my current.
It's no secret among everyone of her A, and moving in with the OM.
So they walk up holding hands, share a few kisses. The pastor's wife was sitting right next to me. She and I saw all this and she asked if I was OK. No, I wasn't.
WW and I were discussing settlement last week, but right then and there I thought f#ck that.
Yesterday I sent off the D filing paperwork back to my attorney. F#ck her.

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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope you nail her arrogant ass to the wall, Jim. Keep your chin up - she deserves that dirtbag who showed up with her.

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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I'm sorry- that's hard to see. What is the matter with these people?

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Talk about arrogance. I agree with the others. That must have just shook you up. Hard to put it into words. Something seriously wrong with someone who does that.

Good luck and stay strong Jimbo.

[This message edited by Thinkingtoomuch at 9:31 PM, October 5th (Saturday)]

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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So they walk up holding hands, share a few kisses.

At your son's game, for all to see including son and his friends?
What a class act!

Couldn't wait for the divorce first hugh?

I am sorry, I know the pain and humiliation must have been awful.

She shamed herself (pos om too) and doesn't have the sense to know it.

But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- another married ho-worker- D

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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry Jimbo. Kudos to you holding it together and not doing anything stupid when you saw them doing this at an event they KNEW you would be at. I don't know if I would have been so strong.

Get that ball rolling, and be rid of her. She really doesn't sound like she's worth keeping.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your right. The arrogance and lack of remorse is astonishing. They parade around like everything perfectly normal. Best thing I ever did for myself was to cut my XWW loose. It hurts in the beginning. But it will get so much better very soon. Your anger will soon turn to indifference. And that's when you know your healed. Take comfort in the fact that your torment is ending, and hers is just beginning.

You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This incident reminds me a bit of my parent's divorce. Neither of them acted this way that I'm told, but words that I've heard people tell my father ring true for you, too, Jimbo: not easy to see now, but it seems like you're better off without her.

My mother thrives on drama though will say otherwise, it's her reaction to it that leads me to feel this way. X has this, too. It sounds like you may have a drama queen on your hands and I'm sorry for that.

I'm glad that you're arriving at the stage you're in, for it isn't easy but shows "them" that we aren't doormats. It sounds similar to where I was when I filed though he didn't do PDA's, did other behaviors in cyber space just as public and bad.

Lately, something I think of is the sheer gall that we see and I think I'm close to generalizing so will try to catch it but still make a point-the gall it takes to do this stuff amazes me, to know that a person knows they will hurt another and brutally, but they do it anyway...this I find intolerant and it's what led me to file, as well.

I wish you speedy ends with comfort in sight, on this new part of your journey.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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